Many people blame their mind for their problems in comments such as, “I can’t make up my mind!” Or, “my mind won’t stop racing.” Or, “my mind won’t let me decide what to do.”

Therefore, if this mind is so powerful that it inhibits you… What is it? What is your mind? How can you change your mind? This video may be a game-changer in your life. 

Dreaming a New Dream – Understanding the Mind-Screen – An extract from video 35 of John Glanvill’s The Calmness in Mind Process for those looking to find a quieter mind and a calmer body.

We all dream one dream or another. The objective world is shared, yet each of us lives inside a private, subjective interpretation of it. That inner experience is shaped by conditioned memories, the chemical soup of the body, values, beliefs, actions and — just as importantly — inactions. If the dream currently playing is not the one you want, the practical question becomes: how do you become the dreamer of a different one?

The starting point is realising that most of the stories that keep the old dream running are not “you.” They are projections onto what I call the mind-screen.

There is no such thing as “the mind” in the way most people talk about it. The mind is simply a screen — blank, silent, inanimate — onto which the brain projects thoughts, images, memories and commentaries. It is like a cinema screen. The screen itself does nothing. It makes no decisions, finds no answers and cannot stop you from acting. When someone says “I can’t make up my mind” or “my mind won’t let me,” they are blaming an empty surface for the quarrel going on among the many parts of the brain that are looking at that surface.

Those parts include the conscious thinking brain, the unconscious programmes that fire automatically, the ego (the little protective personality that wants safety and approval), and the cast of inner characters — the pleaser, the judge, the victim, the warrior, the settler, the nomad and the rest. Each of them projects its own opinion onto the screen. The result is often a noisy, crowded display that the body then reacts to as if it were solid reality.

Above all of them sits the Observer — the quiet awareness that simply watches. The Observer is not one of the noisy voices. It is the one that can choose where to place attention. It can leave the screen cluttered with stories, or it can clear it and focus elsewhere: on the task in hand, on the sensation of the feet on the floor, or on nothing at all.

Most of the time the default state worth aiming for is an empty mind-screen. When little is being projected, the body settles into rest-and-repair mode and the emotional battery recharges. Worry, rumination and catastrophic forecasting are simply habits of keeping the screen busy with material that has not happened and may never happen. Those habits can be interrupted by repeatedly placing attention back on the blank surface itself.

Some people, especially those with strong anxiety or OCD, appear to have a semi-transparent mind-screen. They not only see the finished thoughts the unconscious brain decides to post; they also glimpse the rapid internal calculations that produced them — every possible worst-case scenario the brain briefly considered before selecting the most probable one. That is not supposed to be visible. Watching the raw processing creates the illusion that the brain is seriously considering those extreme possibilities, which then generates further fear and doubt. The practical move is to treat the screen as solid again: accept the final conclusion the unconscious brain offers, and stop analysing the intermediate noise.

The same screen can also receive useful material. When it is kept relatively clear — especially in quiet periods of meditation or focused work — forgotten memories sometimes surface from what feels like external storage, and new ideas arrive that do not feel self-generated. Many inventors, writers and musicians report the same experience: the material simply appeared. Whether one calls the source the collective unconscious, intuition, or something else is less important than the practical observation that space on the screen makes room for it.

This model has direct consequences for change. The old dream is maintained by repeated projection of the same limiting stories. A new dream is built by deliberately projecting different ones and then acting as if they are true, even while the body still feels the old discomfort. Skills are developed by doing, not by waiting until confidence arrives first. The person who begins with only five usable therapy sessions and keeps learning week by week ends up with a hundred. The person who waits until they feel fully ready often never starts.

Living the new dream can itself become a form of art — not in the narrow sense of painting or sculpture, but in the wider sense of shaping a life that expresses clarity, usefulness or calmness. The measure is not whether you become the best in the world at something, but whether you become the best version of yourself that your current capacities allow, while steadily expanding those capacities.

None of this requires the complete disappearance of fear or discomfort. The body will still react when new behaviour is practised. The difference is that the Observer no longer treats those reactions as commands or as proof of danger. They are simply chemical weather passing through the system. The intention to expand the life remains more important than the temporary weather.

The practical daily work is therefore simple, though not always easy. Notice when the screen is filling with old stories. Clear it. Place attention on the next useful action or on the blank surface itself. Refuse to argue with the characters. Refuse to ask “why” of every unwanted thought. Keep the desire for the new dream stronger than the pull of the familiar one. Over time the projections that once felt compulsory lose their grip, and a different life begins to take shape — one that is still imperfect, still subject to the same objective world, yet no longer dictated by the old subjective script.

That is the shift from being trapped inside the dream to becoming the dreamer of a new one.

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Thinking is an Inner Reality Imagination. Action is an Outer Reality Event — and once you act, something will happen. The outcome is never fully in your control, but if the action is aimed at what you truly desire, it is always worthwhile.

What is it you desire?

The next action is yours. Take it.

Much love, John

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